How I set up the chore-based allowance rules for my kids ① (A)

“コドモ給与制度”はじめました① (A)

How I set up the chore-based allowance rules for my kids ① (A)

Recently, I have been doing trial and error about setting new allowance rules for my elementary-school-age children, so I would like to share it in the blog.
What kind of allowance rules does your family have?
Each family has a different way regarding the allowance: how to give it, use it, and save it… There is no correct answer to that, thus it is going to be a tricky question.
In my family, we did not give a monthly allowance to our kids. Instead of it, we used to let them use the money freely, which was given to them on New Year and their birthday as gifts.
As a result, they could buy almost anything they wanted. It turned out to be an excess. They do not want anything now. This situation made me reconsider whether I gave too much money to them.
So I looked up the average allowance for elementary school children in Japan and found out it ranges from 500 to 1000 yen per month. The most common amount is 500 yen! (which meant I gave them ten times more than the average!)
By the way, to my surprise, the average allowance for kids in the US is about 1,200 yen a week, according to my friend, Chieh, who is also the staff of kfuna. I wonder why there is such a difference between Japan and the States!
When I looked into different allowance types, I found the chore-based allowance especially interesting.
The chore-based rule is to set up how much you should pay your children for completing different chores and pay them monthly.
The following are some points I found particularly interesting and helpful:
●Cut the money in half if the kids do the housework after being asked
⇨Let them do it voluntarily
●Double the money for bathtub cleaning and garbage disposal in winter
⇨The price reflects the amount of labor invested.
●Let the kids understand money needs to be in exchange for their time and work
⇨Not to waste money since it is not easy to get.
●If there are siblings, first come, first get!
⇨Let them take the initiative and see what they can do now!
Following these methods, the kids could learn both the housework and the sense of how to use money. (This will make my life easier as well! )
Therefore, we decided to adopt the chore-based allowance system in our family.
As for their New Year's and birthday money mentioned at the beginning, I decided to save it so they could spend it on their new smartphones when they start middle school.
In the next blog, I will introduce more details about how I carried out the chore-based allowance rules in my family.

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